How Do Americans Feel About Restaurant Etiquette?
How do Americans feel about restaurant etiquette? Well, it’s exactly what you think. You’ve more than likely witnessed it yourself. Honestly, you probably feel the same way, if we’re being honest.
So, what behaviors do Americans find acceptable and unacceptable while out to eat at restaurants? It’s probably changed over the years. It’s the latest surprising poll taken about Americans. Here’s how we’re feeling about it today in 2024.
What Is Acceptable Restaurant Etiquette?
There’s definitely an unwritten rule book when it comes to how you should behave when you go out to eat. There’s some things you may be able to do at home, that you certainly can’t do out at a restaurant. Likewise, there’s stuff you can get away with at a restaurant that you can’t at home. Now, you don’t want to confuse the two!
A recent survey conducted by YouGov asked 1,000 American adults about behaviors they deem acceptable and unacceptable at restaurants. 20 of those behaviors mentioned are by customers and the other 20 behaviors are by restaurant management or staff. Just like there’s stuff you can’t do as a customer in a restaurant, there are many things you can’t do when you’re working or dealing with someone’s food at a restaurant.
Following these rules can save you from a lot of embarrassment and possible faux pas. Of course, these things change over time so it’s never a bad idea to freshen up and see what behaviors are acceptable (and not) in restaurants today.
Customers And Restaurant Etiquette
According to the YouGov survey, at least 80% of Americans think it’s unacceptable to say they won’t pay for a dish they ate but didn’t like, allow their children to roam freely, debate prices, stay past closing time, and snap their fingers to get their waiter’s attention.
Additionally, more than half of Americans say it’s acceptable to ask for a to-go container for leftovers, send back a dish that wasn’t made as requested, take photos of their food, ask co-diners to split the bill, and to ask to be seated before their entire party arrives, according to YouGov.
Those are some of the examples that people feel strong in support of or against. However, there are some categories and behaviors that have people divided. Some of the most divisive customer behaviors include asking to taste a bottle of wine before purchasing it, asking for too many modifications on a dish, taking a long time to decide what to order, and leaving no tip after receiving bad service, per YouGov. That’s understandable. Majority of people would agree that leaving no tip after good or fair service wouldn’t be acceptable. However, if you receive bad service some people still might leave a tip while others won’t.
Staff And Restaurant Etiquette
Just like there are many things that customers shouldn’t do in restaurants, there are many behaviors that restaurant staff should avoid or not engage in. At least 75% of Americans think it’s unacceptable for restaurant staff to charge for tap water, not indicate prices on the menu, a minimum spending amount, and playing high music, according to YouGov. I’d agree that a restaurant shouldn’t do any of those things, it makes sense.
The most divisive behaviors here can be when restaurants offer a discount for reviews, not allowing children in the restaurant, and restaurants with a no-phone policy, according to YouGov.
What type of disregard of restaurant etiquette drives you crazy? See more on the full survey from YouGov here.
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