9 Ways To Improve Your Pegging Skills Right Now
Q: Sean called The Cooper and Anthony Show with a pegging question. He said he has a great girlfriend who is willing to do anything. They have been trying pegging but it’s been difficult. He said they tried the Realdoe but he can’t deal. How do they make it work?
A: First of all, you don’t say what size Realdoe you have, they come in several sizes, and I would recommend the slim one.
What Is Pegging?
Let me explain pegging to people listening if they don’t know. Men’s Health and GQ have written extensively on pegging and it’s virtues. Simply put, it’s when a woman penetrates a man (usually with a strap-on) to stimulate the prostate during sex. You’ve seen this in Deadpool, and also in Broad City if you watched that.
Why You Should Try Pegging
Guys enjoy it because it hits the prostate and makes orgasms really intense, plus, it’s actually very good for the prostate- health wise. There have been several published studies that link prostate stimulation to the prevention of prostate cancer. It’s also an erogenous zone that gets overlooked, but for you, Sean you actually have to build up to it. You cant just strap on and go, it’s a sensitive area and you’ll first need a ton of lube, like more than you think you need. Then start small, and work your way up.
Use An O-Ring
Also, make sure your girlfriend has an O-ring on the harness. An O-ring goes around the base of the toy, and holds the dildo or toy in place so it doesn’t slide around which can also make it uncomfortable and inconsistent for you. Try anal toys first, no strap on, and then work your way up. And once again I’m going to recommend Tristian Taormino’s book on anal sex.
Practice: Like any skill, pegging improves with practice. Keep exploring and experimenting with your partner to discover what brings you both the most pleasure. Here are nine of Dr. Cooper’s best tips to help you get better at pegging:
- Education: Educate yourself about the anatomy and physiology of the anus and prostate. Understanding these aspects can help you provide a more enjoyable and safe experience for your partner. Always use clean toys, practice safe sex, and consider using condoms on the dildo for easy cleanup and hygiene.
- Choose the Right Equipment: Invest in a high-quality strap-on harness and dildo that suits both your comfort and your partner’s preferences. Consider factors like size, material, and shape.
- Lubrication: Use plenty of water-based lubricant to ensure a smooth and comfortable experience. The anus does not naturally lubricate like the vagina, so this step is crucial for reducing friction and discomfort.
- Warm-Up: Engage in foreplay and relaxation techniques to help your partner relax and get into the right mindset. Start with gentle touches, kisses, and massaging before moving on to anal play.
- Take It Slow: Begin with small, slow movements and gradually increase the intensity as your partner becomes more comfortable. It’s essential to be patient and attentive to their reactions.
- Communication During: Continuously check in with your partner throughout the experience. Ask how they’re feeling, if they want more or less pressure, and if they’re comfortable.
- Experiment: Be open to trying different positions and techniques to find what works best for both you and your partner. The key is to adapt and explore together.
- Focus on the Prostate: If your partner enjoys prostate stimulation, take your time to locate and massage the prostate gently. This can lead to intense pleasure for some individuals.
- Aftercare: After the experience, provide emotional support and aftercare to your partner. Cuddling, talking, or simply being there for them can help them feel safe and cared for.
