When Someone Dies And You Find Their Porn Stash
Q: Alexandra asked Cooper and Anthony what to do. Her grandpa died, he has a porn stash, and she knows where it is. Should she get it and ditch it before the rest of the family cleans out the house?
A: Yeah. go get the tapes. you aren’t judgmental and you don’t care what he has but other family members might be shocked, or upset and it’s just not worth their feeling scandalized by something so innocuous and so private
So if you know where his porn stash is, sure, collect it and throw it in the trash. But if you decide to keep any of it, make sure there’s nothing illegal there that can implicate YOU in any way
Also check under the bed and in the drawers of whatever night table he may have there in case there are more “toys.” You can check underwear and sock drawers and I would also look in the bathroom.
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IN GENERAL, WHAT TO DO IF FINDING THE SEX STASH OF A LOVED ONE
When someone passes away, it can be a difficult and emotional time for those left behind. In such circumstances, it is essential to approach the situation with sensitivity and respect. If you happen to know where the deceased person’s sex toys are hidden, it’s important to handle the situation discreetly and honor their privacy.
First and foremost, remember that everyone has a right to their own personal and private belongings, regardless of their nature. Treat the discovery of the sex toys in the same manner you would any other private items. It is not appropriate to discuss or share this information with others unless explicitly instructed by the deceased or their immediate family.
MAYBE KEEP THEM?
If you are responsible for handling the deceased person’s belongings, approach this task with care. Keep in mind that these intimate items may hold sentimental value or personal significance to the individual who owned them. If possible, try to identify a trusted person, such as a close family member or executor of the estate, who can handle the sensitive items.
BE DISCREET AS IF THEY ARE STILL ALIVE
Consider maintaining the deceased person’s privacy by packing the items discreetly in a box or bag. Store them securely in a private location until the appropriate person can address them. It is important to respect the deceased’s wishes regarding the disposal or distribution of their personal items, including their sex toys, as outlined in their will or any other legal documentation.
Remember that grieving is a personal process, and people cope with loss differently. If you find yourself struggling with the situation or experiencing any discomfort, reach out for support. It can be helpful to confide in a close friend or seek guidance from a therapist or grief counselor.
Ultimately, when someone dies, it is crucial to prioritize respect, privacy, and sensitivity. Handling the discovery of someone’s hidden sex toys and porn with discretion is an important part of honoring their memory and maintaining their dignity.
