Help! My Girlfriend Is A Secret Sugar Baby
Jack called Cooper and Anthony to say that he found out his fiance was a secret sugar baby. He wanted to know what that’s all about and if it’s a problem.
WHAT DR. COOPER TOLD JACK
For most sugar babies, it’s a lifestyle. They enjoy it, and they enjoy having a sugar daddy and they enjoy the nature of a relationship where all of their desires are fulfilled by an older wealthier man and all they have to do is have sex with them which they also enjoy.
Many people thing sugar babies exist because men their own age don’t want them. But in Jack’s case, the problem isn’t that she doesn’t have a loving man in her life, the problem is that she hasn’t disclosed this to her fiance. She isn’t being honest about what she likes, i.e. this lifestyle she so obviously likes. That could be because she also likes the secrecy of it but she may feel like Jack would judge her. So, his issue is not only her seeing other men, it’s the fact that she’s lying to him about who she is. He needs answers. Dr. Cooper gave him some:
WHY DO WOMEN BECOME SUGAR BABIES?
The reasons why women become sugar babies are complex and multifaceted. Generally, a sugar baby is a young woman who is financially supported by a wealthy older man, known as a sugar daddy. These relationships are often based on an exchange of companionship and intimacy for financial support.
One reason why women may become sugar babies is due to financial insecurity or hardship. Many young women struggle to make ends meet and find it difficult to cover the cost of education, rent, and other basic necessities. Seeking out a sugar daddy can provide a means of financial support and stability, which may be particularly appealing to those who lack the financial resources to pursue their dreams or support themselves.
A LIFESTYLE CHOICE OR AN EMOTIONAL CONNECTION
Another reason why women become sugar babies is for the lifestyle benefits that come with being involved with a wealthy, successful man. This may include travel, luxury gifts, access to exclusive events, and other perks. For some women, this type of lifestyle is desirable and something that they may not be able to achieve on their own.
Some women may also choose to become sugar babies for the emotional connection and companionship that they receive from their sugar daddies. Older men may be more experienced and mature, providing a sense of stability and security that may be lacking in other relationships. Additionally, the arrangement may allow for a more relaxed and enjoyable dating experience without the pressures and expectations of a traditional relationship.
BUT ALSO…
It is important to note that becoming a sugar baby is not without risks, and individuals considering this lifestyle should proceed with caution. While many sugar daddy relationships are mutually beneficial and respectful, there is also the potential for exploitation and abuse. It is important for women to set clear boundaries and expectations and to prioritize their safety and well-being above all else.
