My Husband Wants To Wear A Chastity Cage On His Wiener, That’s Totally Normal, Right?
LISTEN TO THIS QUESTION/ANSWER ABOUT CHASTITY CAGES ^
Q: Martha and her hubs of 16 years want to spice up their sex life. One of the things they want to do is go to a swingers club. However, her hubs also he wants to use male chastity devices. Martha called Dr. Cooper of The Cooper and Anthony Show to ask how to proceed because she’s worried they might be painful for him.
A: It doesn’t matter if you think that chastity devices might be painful. If he’s into it, he’s into it. Let him decide whether it might be too much.
For people who don’t know what chastity cages for men are, they are usually a cage that restricts access to the penis and restrains erections and prevents masturbation. This is a kink for some people and by indulging it with him you are the being the best partner you can be. You don’t have to understand it, you just have to accept it.
WHAT’S THE CHASTITY KINK?
Chastity kink is a broad spectrum. There are different things to try and see what works best. And by the way, the whole idea here is that you are the dom in this situation. So, you may want to research this a bit first.
But….A chastity cage, also known as a male chastity device, is a type of sex toy designed to physically restrict a man’s ability to engage in sexual activity or masturbate. It typically consists of a cage-like structure made of metal or plastic that encloses the male genitalia, particularly the penis, and is usually secured with a lock. The device prevents the wearer from achieving a full erection and, in some cases, makes it uncomfortable or even painful to attempt sexual activity.
WHY DO PEOPLE USE CHASTITY CAGES?
Men use chastity cages for various reasons, and their motivations can be both practical and psychological. Here are some common reasons why men may choose to use chastity cages:
- BDSM and Power Exchange: In the context of BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism), chastity cages can be used as a tool for power exchange dynamics. Some individuals find pleasure in relinquishing control of their sexual activities to a dominant partner, who holds the key to the chastity device.
- Teasing and Denial: Chastity cages are often employed in erotic play involving teasing and denial. The wearer may experience heightened arousal and desire due to the enforced restriction, while the keyholder (typically a partner) has the power to control when or if sexual release is allowed.
- Training and Discipline: Some men use chastity cages as a form of self-discipline and control. By preventing themselves from engaging in impulsive or excessive sexual activity, they may seek to improve focus, productivity, or personal growth in other areas of life.
- Fetish and Kink: For some individuals, wearing a chastity cage can be a fetish or kink in itself, offering sexual gratification through the act of being confined and controlled.
- Relationship Dynamics: In certain consensual relationships, chastity cages may be used to reinforce fidelity and trust between partners, particularly in long-distance relationships or those with specific agreements regarding sexual exclusivity.
- Male Submissives: Submissive men may use chastity cages as a way to express their submission to a dominant partner, who decides when they can experience sexual release.
It’s essential to recognize that the use of chastity cages should always be consensual and agreed upon by all parties involved. Clear communication, trust, and a solid understanding of boundaries are crucial when incorporating such devices into intimate relationships or BDSM play. If you’re considering exploring chastity play, it’s essential to educate yourself on proper usage, safety, and potential risks to ensure a positive and fulfilling experience for all involved.
